Welcome to Second Street Life
You may be experiencing a sense of unreality as a result of a relationship with a narcissistic individual or family group. You may have tried to share your experiences of coercive control, gaslighting, and withholding with your friends, but because the situation is so unbelievable, not even your friends (or family) believe you. However, you believe yourself.
You have reached the decision to come back to you, after narcissistic trauma or religious abuse. You may not know how to begin the work. You need someone who believes you, believes in you, who will come alongside with the tools and support necessary for coming back to you. Reclamation of your autonomy with the support of a life coach can be a game changer. It was for me.
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Second Street Life was created for people whom the former way of survival no longer serves, and who want support moving forward. My approach springs from the belief that the client's solutions, long hidden behind the mortar of narcissism, lie within the client, waiting to break through. I offer practical, proven tools which help you reframe the obstacles blocking your recovery, and help you regenerate your survival to thriving.
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​ Life coaching not only helps you recover your autonomy, but leads to thriving as only YOU can. For assistance on your journey, check out my blog and newsletter for helpful insights and practical tools.
Welcome to loving and trusting yourself again. It's good to have a place where you are not alone, a place on Second Street to settle into, and call home.
Contact me, won't you?
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About Me
When I finally came to grips with what a narcissistic system can do to a person's life, I was faced with a choice: continue using ineffective coping skills which (though they had kept me alive) kept me small and afraid, or use new tools to rewire my inner light so I could live a different way than I had been living. My desire to live on a second path or "street" as fully me, far outweighed my fear of trying something new: another road, a second chance, my Second Street Life. In that light, the choice was easy. The ramifications of my second street life were difficult to navigate. I determined that when the opportunity arose, I would share my process with others.
My approach is a hopeful one, coupled with a "boots on the ground" practicality, and workable tools that you can put into practice immediately. When you are ready, I will partner with you to give you tools which help you find your voice, your true center, and your next steps.
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To book Eva as your private coach or public speaker for your event, please email your request to the following email address: evastanfield222@gmail.com
TESTIMONIALS
From people who started their
healing journey
"Eva inspires HOPE. She is not only a survivor but a thriver. Sharing hope with others will be her legacy."
-School Counselor
“Those who have grown up in a family structure held together by the insidious abuse unique to narcissistic parents suffer for decades before they realize the insanity they were brought up in. Eva has done the difficult ‘inner work’ which allowed her to escape. The resulting clarity and peace have been so rewarding. Eva wants to enable other victims trapped in narcissistic family systems to take steps to achieve the clarity and peace it takes to begin to enjoy their lives. A true survivor who can help others chart their own course for their own self-discovery and healing, Eva helps people work through the process of discovery and realignment into reality.”
-Laura
“Eva has helped me through some of the darkest times in my life. She is incredibly understanding, caring and kind and she has taught me to be grateful even for the small things in my life which has helped me become a very optimistic person with a positive attitude.”
-Effie